Welcome! As you suspect, your PC 'guru' friend may have left a so-called "back door" in your PC so that he can remotely administrate and/or spy on it. If you want, you can use a free port-scanning service such as
GRC.com's
Shields Up! It can scan many commonly-used ports to see if they're open, shut or filtered (firewalled). Unfortunately, this will not tell you exactly what is running on an open port, and it can only scan in small increments of 100 ports (you have over 65,000 ports!)
I am willing to help you a little further than this, if you're willing. I can use the excellent network analysis software "nmap" to thoroughly scan your system, and then report to you exactly what your system looks like to everybody on the Internet. This would reveal whether or not you really do have a back door, and if so, what software/version it is. Of course, this would require some amount of trust, as you know me even less well than you know the individual whom you suspect of spying on you. :rolleyes: I can get your IP address simply from you visiting our website, however I will not proceed with the nmap scan without your implicit approval.
Now, in all fairness, I do something similar with my clients as well, so that I can help them from the comfort of my own home. But it's only upon prior consent, and only using a very secure service called "OpenSSH". Even then, I only check to make sure there are no major problems and that the system is updating normally. Does this individual deserve the benefit of the doubt in this respect, or are you pretty certain that he's violating your trust by spying on your daily activities? If the latter is the case, we can direct you as to how you might lock down your system so that *nobody* can breach your security. If all this sounds too fishy to you, I understand, so no hard feelings! But, if you decide you'd like my assistance, feel free to reply to this message or IM me at one of the many messanger services listed on my profile. Also, you might want to check out the networking and security
FAQ, as there
may be some helpful snippets in there for you.
All the best,
-AT