I'm not gonna list each indidvidual board, but Iwill, Epox and Abit are in the HighPoint crowd. Soyo has also recently started using HighPoint chips on their Dragon series.
If you use RAID, I've found the Promise controller to be more desirable. If you need to use a controller as a standalone IDE controller for a while, HighPoint is better.
If you can't use the Promise controller as a standalone IDE controller, leave the optical drives on the same channel, put one HDD on the other, and then use the Promise for the other hard drive. If it's your boot drive, you'll need to fully install the drivers for the Promise controller or you won't be able to get into Windows after changing the controllers.