The wedding: an update

Exfoliate said:
Well I'm sure it's for the best, if you think you need more time then it's good to take it slow, can't rush something this important. Best of luck man.
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I agree with Exfoliate. Get things ironed out first. You've got plenty of time
 
I have no doubts that other stuff won't come up, but this wait isn't going to hurt us at all. I was pretty low after it went down regardless.
 
...and now the conclusion of B's current love life.

She came over a few days ago and stated that she simply can't go through with the wedding. At this point, it's not something she's really ready for which kinda includes some settling down. Yeah, it's over, but at least we split on good terms. 'nuff said.
 
Oh man! That's a bummer!
I am truely sorry to hear.
I hope you feel better soon.
Man, breaking up sucks big time!

Anyway, wish you all the best and rightly mentioned, at least it ended on "good" terms. All the best for the future, big man.... :good:
 
DavidNW said:
Many congratulations! All the very best to you both. I hope it all goes well.

Cheers,

Dave.
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Sorry, Big Bro, when I replied to your thread I only read the initial posts and didn’t think of reading the latter ones when I offered my congratulations - having now done so, I'm sorry to hear things have gone awry for you both.

Perhaps in the future you both may be able to work things out, seeing as you parted on good terms. A similar situation happened to me, but we got back together eventually - when we had had more time to resolve issues. In any event, keep smiling - it's the only way home!

Dave.
 
I'm really sorry to hear that B. It really can't feel good after all these months but I suppose if it was going to happen it's better now than into the marriage. Hope you can sort things out perhaps, best wishes.
 
Big B said:
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...and now the conclusion of B's current love life.

She came over a few days ago and stated that she simply can't go through with the wedding. At this point, it's not something she's really ready for which kinda includes some settling down. Yeah, it's over, but at least we split on good terms. 'nuff said.
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Sorry to hear that brother. Sometimes things goes wrong and we cant even do anything but anyways good luck for the future. I hope you will sort out something soon and bring your life on track again.
If you dont mind I have a suggestion for you, just send this love letter to your GF and see how it will work............


Dearest Girl:

I am very happy to inform you that I have fallen in love with you since Tuesday, the 17th of Feb 2006.

With reference to the meeting held between us on the 17th of Feb 2006 at 1500 hours, I would like to present myself as a prospective lover.

Our love affair would be on probation for a period of three months and depending on compatibility, would be made permanent.

Of course, upon completion of probation, there will be continuous on-the-relationship training and relationship appraisal schemes leading up to promotion from lover to spouse.

The expenses incurred for coffee and entertainment would initially be shared equally between us. Later, based on your performance, I might take up a larger share of the expenses.

However I am broad-minded enough, to be taken care of, on your expense account.

I request you to kindly respond within 30 days of receiving this letter, failing which, this offer would be cancelled without further notice and I shall be considering someone else.

I would be happy, if you could forward this letter to your sister, if you do not wish to take up this offer.

Thanking you in anticipation.

Yours sincerely,
Topless Admin Big B


Just kiddin....to give you some lough~! :)
 
Yeah, it's not as much of a kick in the nuts. I started to think that this was a real possibility when we pushed the wedding back. I've pretty much paid my car off with most of the savings, so that's one bill I don't have to pay. Pretty much, I can start shoveling $$ into savings and work on moving out of my folks place for good...with no false starts this time around.
 
I'm really sorry to hear it B, it sucks, but like you said - at least you ended on good terms. I hope life treats you well and you can get to where you want to be man :good:
 
Sorry about the bad news man, all the best for the future Big B. I'm sure you've heard of the saying "Theres plenty of fish in the sea!" but you never know, you might catch the same fish again?
 
Not doing that. I'm just refocusing on different goals. Soon, I will own my car, but I gotta talk with the bank about that. I've just about paid it off, so there's a chance that some of the intrest on it get's cut out, but we'll see. I'm going to talk to them later this week...or once I see the check's clear my account. I'm planning to play around with my new camera too and get better at shooting.
 
In the long run this may somewhat benificial. I know that sounds harsh but financially I guess you'll be helping youself to settle in, pay things off, move out, etc. Then you can see if she, or anyone else is ready?
 
Yeah. I mean, emotionally, I'm not falling apart. I had my hardest time when we pushed the wedding back. I was hoping that the extra time would help kick things back into gear, but it ultimately didn't. The less I owe on anything, the better. Sure, I could tear into my student loans, but I think it's more prudent to save up at this point in time. Having to pay 60 buck per month is pretty minimal anyway.
 
Well B I'm sure things will work out for the best - like Exfoliate said, you'll have a chance to clear some things up (money wise) and start getting yourself your own place possibly. I'm sure things will be alright - I wish you all the best man :good:
 
Aww, man, sorry to hear that! Too bad I don't have anything new and insightful to say 'cuz I don't even have any experience in that sorta thing, but I'm glad you're weathering it well and setting yourself on track to other goals. Keep up the spirit and best of luck.
 
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